What am I doing wrong?

I am looking for love. Does it even matter what the guy treats you like or looks like or anyhting? Pleae tell me as I am very curious abotu what you are looking for besdies the money, what about kids, what about love. Do you belive in arranged marriage kind of love that you just grow on each other. Sheesh! SIngle rich guys are probaly at private clubs private evetns parties and stuff, you got to get a nice dress and act the part to get in I guess.